polite synonyms

kind nice interested civil proper formal friendly smooth gentle pleasant diplomatic mild sympathetic kindly thoughtful bland benign gracious agreeable amenable amiable courteous gallant attentive respectful considerate conciliatory sociable tactful obliging courtly cordial affable gentlemanly politic solicitous chivalrous punctilious ingratiating ceremonious neighborly benignant good-natured complaisant propitiatory well-bred well-spoken genteel mannerly well-mannered conciliative

polished refined cultured urbane