Prepositions with nouns

“Of patience” or “with patience” with “patience”

“With patience” is the standard expression for doing something calmly and without frustration. “Of patience” appears mainly in descriptive phrases such as “a lesson of patience.”

Quick answer

Which phrase is more common?

Use “with patience” to describe behaviour or actions. Use “of patience” when patience describes another noun, often in literary or formal language.

She explained the process with patience and care.
Parenting can be a test of patience.
He listened with patience to every complaint.

Choose the pattern by meaning

These forms are not interchangeable. Choose the construction by meaning, not by which preposition appears most often.

1
with patience

Describing calm behaviour

Use this pattern after verbs to show calm and steady action.

The nurse spoke with patience to the child.
They handled the delay with patience.
2
noun + of patience

Describing something related to patience

Use “of patience” after another noun in descriptive expressions.

Learning the craft is a matter of patience and practice.
The project became a real test of patience.
3
patience with + person/thing

Saying who or what requires patience

Use “with” after “patience” to name the source of difficulty.

She has patience with young children.
I am losing patience with this software.

See the difference in context

The same subject can take different constructions because each sentence answers a different question.

Construction
Example
Meaning
with patience
He answered the questions with patience.
In a calm and tolerant way.
of patience
The puzzle was a test of patience.
Patience describes the noun before it.
patience with
Teachers need patience with beginners.
Tolerance toward someone or something.

Common mistakes

Some combinations appear in real text but do not mean what learners often assume.

Using “of patience” for actions

Use “with patience” to describe how someone acts.

✕ She listened of patience. ✓ She listened with patience.

Forgetting the object after “patience with”

This structure normally names a person or thing.

✕ He has patience with. ✓ He has patience with customers.

Using “with patience” after a noun

After nouns, English often prefers “of patience.”

✕ a lesson with patience ✓ a lesson of patience

Quick practice

Choose the expression that matches the intended meaning.

1. The manager responded ___ patience.
2. Waiting in long lines can be a test ___ patience.
3. Good parents need patience ___ teenagers.

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Frequently asked questions

Is “with patience” correct English?

Yes. It is the standard way to describe calm, tolerant action.

Can I say “of patience”?

Yes, in descriptive phrases such as “a matter of patience” or “a test of patience.”

What preposition follows “patience” before a person?

Use “with,” as in “patience with children.”

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