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Prepositions with nouns

For dad or with dad?

For dad and with dad are both common, but they express different relationships and meanings.

Quick answer

What is the difference?

Use for dad when something is intended for, given to, or done on behalf of your father. Use with dad when talking about being together or doing something in his company.

I bought a gift for dad.
We had dinner with dad after work.
This message is for dad only.

Choose the pattern by meaning

These forms are not interchangeable. Choose the construction by meaning, not by which preposition appears most often.

1
gift for dad

Showing purpose or recipient

Use for dad when something is intended for him.

She made a card for dad on Father's Day.
2
speak with dad

Talking about company or interaction

Use with dad after verbs describing time together or communication.

I need to talk with dad tonight.
3
stay with dad

Being together in the same place

Use with dad to show company or living arrangements.

The children stayed with dad during the holidays.
4
plan for dad

Doing something on someone's behalf

For dad can also mean in support of or concerning him.

They organised a surprise party for dad.

See the difference in context

The same subject can take different constructions because each sentence answers a different question.

Construction
Example
Meaning
for dad
This cake is for dad.
Shows recipient, benefit, or purpose.
with dad
I went fishing with dad.
Shows company or shared activity.
to dad
She wrote a letter to dad.
Shows direction or recipient after certain verbs.

Common mistakes

Some combinations appear in real text but do not mean what learners often assume.

Using with dad for gifts

With dad means together with him, not intended for him.

✕ I bought this with dad for Father's Day. ✓ I bought this for dad for Father's Day.

Using for dad for company

For does not normally express being together.

✕ I watched the game for dad. ✓ I watched the game with dad.

Quick practice

Choose the expression that matches the intended meaning.

1. We had lunch ___ dad yesterday.
2. This present is ___ dad.
3. She sent an email ___ dad last night.

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Frequently asked questions

Can for dad and with dad both be correct?

Yes, but they mean different things. For dad shows purpose or benefit, while with dad shows company.

Is with dad informal?

Yes. Dad is informal family vocabulary commonly used in conversation.

When should I use to dad instead?

Use to dad after verbs such as send, give, write, or speak when showing direction or recipient.

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