Prepositions after adjectives

Surprised by vs. surprised at

Both surprised by and surprised at are standard. By often focuses on the cause, while at commonly focuses on the event, fact, or reaction.

Quick answer

Choosing between surprised by and surprised at

Use surprised by for the thing or person causing surprise. Use surprised at for reactions to events, behaviour, or information. In many contexts, both are possible.

We were surprised by the sudden announcement.
She seemed surprised at his response.
I was surprised by her kindness.

Choose the pattern by meaning

These forms are not interchangeable. Choose the construction by meaning, not by which preposition appears most often.

1
surprised by + cause

Focus on what caused the surprise

By highlights the person, action, or thing producing the reaction.

They were surprised by the results.
He looked surprised by the question.
2
surprised at + event or behaviour

Reaction to something noticed

At often refers to reactions to facts, behaviour, or events.

I was surprised at her honesty.
She seemed surprised at the price increase.
3
surprised to + verb

Unexpected discovery or experience

Use surprised to before an infinitive clause.

We were surprised to hear the news.
He was surprised to find the office empty.

See the difference in context

The same subject can take different constructions because each sentence answers a different question.

Construction
Example
Meaning
surprised by
They were surprised by the decision.
focus on the cause of surprise
surprised at
She was surprised at his reaction.
focus on the event or behaviour
surprised to + verb
I was surprised to see you.
unexpected experience or discovery
surprised with
She surprised us with a gift.
with is used with the verb surprise, not normally after the adjective surprised

Common mistakes

Some combinations appear in real text but do not mean what learners often assume.

Using with after surprised

With commonly follows the verb surprise, not the adjective surprised.

✕ I was surprised with the news. ✓ I was surprised by the news.

Forgetting the infinitive after surprised to

Surprised to must be followed by a verb.

✕ She was surprised to the answer. ✓ She was surprised to hear the answer.

Overusing one preposition

Both by and at are standard, but the emphasis can differ slightly.

✕ He was surprised by her behaviour. ✓ He was surprised at her behaviour.

Quick practice

Choose the expression that matches the intended meaning.

1. We were surprised ___ the final score.
2. She seemed surprised ___ his attitude.
3. I was surprised ___ hear the news.

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Frequently asked questions

Are surprised by and surprised at interchangeable?

Often yes, although by slightly emphasises the cause and at the reaction.

Is surprised with correct?

Not usually after the adjective surprised. Use surprised by or surprised at.

Can I say surprised to see someone?

Yes. Surprised to plus verb is a very common pattern.

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