bitter about + thing/event
Talking about the cause of resentment
Use bitter about with situations, actions, or past events.
Many employees were bitter about the pay cuts.
Bitter about, at, in, for, or with?
Bitter is most commonly followed by about or at for the cause of resentment. Bitter with usually describes a relationship. In and for are less common and often belong to a larger phrase.
Quick answer
Which prepositions go with bitter?
Use bitter about or bitter at to describe the reason for resentment. Use bitter with to describe resentment toward a person in a relationship. Bitter for is uncommon after the adjective alone, and bitter in usually introduces a situation rather than directly following bitter.
She is still bitter about the decision.
He sounded bitter at being ignored.
After the trial, they became bitter with each other.
He sounded bitter at being ignored.
After the trial, they became bitter with each other.
Choose the pattern by meaning
These forms are not interchangeable. Choose the construction by meaning, not by which preposition appears most often.
bitter at + action/treatment
Reacting negatively to treatment
Bitter at often focuses on what someone experienced or received.
She grew bitter at the unfair criticism.
bitter with + person
Describing hostility between people
Use bitter with to show resentment in a relationship or interaction.
He remained bitter with his former partner.
bitter in + situation
Describing behaviour or emotion within a context
Bitter in usually introduces the context where the feeling appears, not the direct object of bitterness.
She became bitter in defeat.
See the difference in context
The same subject can take different constructions because each sentence answers a different question.
Construction
Example
Meaning
bitter about
They are bitter about the result.
resentful because of a situation or event
bitter at
He was bitter at being excluded.
resentful about treatment or an action
bitter with
She is still bitter with her brother.
resentful toward a person
bitter for
She felt bitter for a while after the loss.
for usually expresses duration or another separate phrase, not the object of bitter
bitter in
He sounded bitter in defeat.
in introduces a context or state, not the direct cause of resentment
Common mistakes
Some combinations appear in real text but do not mean what learners often assume.
Using bitter for as the main pattern
Bitter for is not a standard way to express the cause of resentment.
✕ She was bitter for the decision. ✓ She was bitter about the decision.Confusing bitter with and angry with
Bitter with suggests deeper, lasting resentment.
✕ He became bitter with the slow service. ✓ He became bitter about the slow service.Using in for the cause
Use about or at for the reason someone feels bitter.
✕ They were bitter in the cancellation. ✓ They were bitter about the cancellation.Quick practice
Choose the expression that matches the intended meaning.
1. She is still bitter ___ losing the promotion.
2. He became bitter ___ his former business partner.
3. The coach sounded bitter ___ defeat.
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Frequently asked questions
Is bitter about more common than bitter at?
Both are standard. Bitter about is broader and very common for situations or events.
Can I say bitter with someone?
Yes. Bitter with someone means feeling lasting resentment toward that person.
Is bitter for correct?
Not usually as the main adjective pattern. For often belongs to another part of the sentence, such as duration.
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